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Be Careful With Your Words, Be Careful With Your Anger

Humility must always be doing its work like a bee making its honey in the hive: without humility all will be lost.” Teresa of Avila

_Bee on flower

Be careful, my child. Gather with care from the wind-borne moment what sustenance you may find.

Keep searching for truth, the sweet amidst the bitter. Be diligent, be sincere, be curious and undaunted.

But be humble. You are only one small laborer in a very large garden. There is so much more than what you see. There is so much less of you than you pretend.

Be careful, my troubled one. Learn to wait, to hover, to rise above the gusty winds of rash and shallow discourse. Tune your ear to listen for reason beneath reaction, for hunger beneath a smug and self-satisfied sigh.

Look deeper. It is not your quick retort, your flush of confusion, your clenched fist, or  your fleeting joy that will sustain you. It is not your solitary or collective understanding that will carry you home.

There is something more substantial beneath your feet, the pulsing life you did not fashion, the steady hum of being not of your own doing. The black-sharpie underline, the emphatic, unfathomable but rock-rooted foundation beneath you–what is it?

Love. Love that never fails, that will not be shaken. God’s glad and unswerving intention that all creation be healed, redeemed, and wondrously restored.

Be careful, then, with your words, for words can’t be unsaid. Be cautious with anger, keep it aimed at its only true target.

Be wary of superior and disdainful certainty. Reject the viral snark, the emotional and simplistic answers of this age. Be humble, be little, refusing to make your viewpoint and half-formed assumptions the interpretive key for all time.

Above all, be stern with your own sin,  your hidden complicity with evil. With joy, receive God’s abundant mercy and forgiveness, and let it spill over and ever upon your neighbor.

Where have you learned to be careful?

Photograph by Melanie Hunt
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12 replies on “Be Careful With Your Words, Be Careful With Your Anger”

What a wonderful ‘first read’ of the day. Thank you for sharing your wonderful writing. It is full of truth and wisdom. Wish I had learned a lot if this when I was younger, but hoping I am growing in showing God’s love and mercy as I grow older. Never am I sorry for showing love, but oh, how I often regret a quick retort or judgement. Thank you for this encouragement Janet.

What a beautiful way to express a daily reminder of oneself. Thank you for sharing your gifts.

Janet,
I’m in the “listening” season of my life. It is NOT easy at all. I’m used to having the last word and the “right” answer and God is teaching me, the hard way, to use my words wisely. I truly appreciate your heart in this post, it totally encouraged my day and also confirmed what the Lord is teaching me at the moment.

I was about to call a company to complain about poor service, and your posting caught my eye. I re-read it and am so convicted of my snarkiness when I call and complain about something. Ouch! Thanks!

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